Sometimes I have a funny thought, or an unusual experience, or I see a beautiful flower balcony, and I think, "Oh, I must tell that to Uncle John! He`ll love it!"
Uncle John was born in 1895, so he would now be 114. He was always "old" to me, but no, he never got THAT old (he died at age 95). We met in 1961 when I was 13 and he was 67. He invited me to live with him for a year in his home town of State College, Pennsylvania.
And here my memory begins.
I had just turned 16 and was full of curiosity and a spirit of adventure! We took the ocean liner "Bremen" from Bremerhaven to New York and arrived in New York on a sunny morning in July. There Uncle John`s son and his family awaited us, and we stayed two days in New York. To me that was an overwhelming beginning. I had seen the movie West Side Story and read books about NY, but I had not expected the sounds, the heat, the many colored people, the yellow cabs, the crowds of people in the streets and the immensely tall buildings! All of it made my heart beat!
But what I was really looking forward to was the small town we were heading to. Uncle John had told be a bit about it before. The town was named after the university it hosted, Penn State University, and almost the whole town worked for it. So had Uncle John, who was a carpenter by profession, but now he was retired and had travelled around for a while. In Germany where his ancestors had come from, he met me, and learning of my great wish to see the USA, he had simply invited me. (If you look at my older post "Mr. Generous", you can learn more about him).
State College lies in the Center County of Penna., and at the time I was there, it had 16 000 inhabitants, and about 16 000 students. So it really was not a big town, which suited me just fine. Coming from the city of Hamburg (with 1.7 million inhabitants) this was just the change I was ready for.
My knowledge of America came mostly from books and films. I had seen Rio Bravo and My Friend Shane, so there must be a lot of cowboys around! I read books like My friend Flicka, and Huckleberry Finn, and Gone with the Wind... which all gave me a picturesque image of America. Of course I also knew that in places like Chicago there were gangsters like Al Capone, so a small town was probably a better place to live in!
It is funny to put myself back into my teenage self. I seem to remember so many details, but have they adjusted to my knowledge of today? Luckily, my best friend Ulla kept all the letters which I wrote her in this year, and I have them lying here beside me. Do you mind if I just quote a bit from them? They still make me laugh and shake my head and remember all the scenes. Here we go, translated,
August 23rd, 1964
My dear Ulla, we`re back home from Washington (it was fabulous, but if it hadn`t been quite so hot and we`d have had a little more time, I might have enjoyed it even more). Five letters were waiting for me!!
I must tell you more of my daily life. We are going to church every Sunday, mornings and evenings. There I have already met a lot of people. When church is out, we don`t leave for home right away but have chats in front of the church door. The people find it interesting to talk with me, want to learn a few German words and I must tell them something about Germany. Then they say, "It was nice meeting you" which I find peculiar. What if I`m a real brat and they only haven`t found out yet? How can the KNOW it was REALLY nice to meet me? But they give me friendliness in advance!
Meanwhile we were in the school I am going to go to, and the nice head teacher told me something about their school system and we both agreed that I should visit 11th grade. Now I am to choose 6 subjects out of 94 possible ones!!!! That is going to be tough!
Yesterday I saw my first racoon.
Love, Geli
Sept.1, 1964
Dear Ulla, I am sitting in front of the fan to dry my hair. Soon a girl will come here to take my photo. A few days ago I was interviewed for the school paper. I am one of two foreign students (a boy comes from Paraguay).
I learned something incredible: waterskiing! Friends of Uncle John`s have a boat and took us along to a river named Susquehanna. (The wife is German and has married an American soldier right after the war. Now they have four children). It was so much fun! At first I always got entangled in the skis and swallowed lots of water, thinking I`d never learn to stand upright on them. But with my fourth try I managed the trick and then it felt like flying! Or like gallopping over a meadow!
I have met a family here who offered me a young horse to ride (her name is, believe it or not, Flicka). They own a stud and have five children, of which four can ride horseback excellently. In Western Style, though, reins in one hand, with or without saddle, I SAW them! The fifth can only not yet ride because it is only 17 days old, but I`m sure it will have caught up in one year.
Not far from here lies a small town named Punxsutawney. Doesn`t that sound pretty? I love these Indian names. I am going to call one of my daughters so.
What would you think if us two would marry two Americans and settle near the Rocky Mountains? I don`t think I want to return to Germany.
Have you ever smelled skunk? I already three times! Uaaah!
Love, Geli
17.9. Dear Ulla, I am sitting in my school and we are learning how to spell definite and privilege.
This school cracks me up! After each lesson we have only three minutes time to find our new classroom. (As Ulla knows, in Germany we all sit in classes of about 25 to 30 students, and we all learn the same subjects, and so only the teachers switch rooms).
At first I never found the right room number and was always late. I gallopped along the hallways, ran up and down stairs, knocked down teachers while murmuring my next room number. Meanwhile I noticed, though, that the teachers don`t care much if you are late, and so you may as well take it easy. I am learning Spanish from a Cuban lady with a terrible English accent and French from an American teacher with a horrible French accent. All very funny..."
Stop me, or I will go on and on! Can you feel my excitement? My utter enjoyment? the friendliness of all the people I encountered?
This year has been etched on in my memory. Whenever I meet an American, I want to hug them and say, you have treated me with love and respect (even if it was not YOU), and I am deeply thankful for every smile and every encounter I had.
Thank you, my old friends, no matter if you have passed. In my heart you live on. And I gladly share the love you gave me with the people I am meeting now.
"It is so nice to meet you, my dears. each one of you!"
Love from Geli